Steve, after now seeing the actual pictures of your gib strip, I agree with David and others, it's all wrong. The angles of the cross section MUST match the angles of the carriage and ways, (they don't). And the gib should extend the width of the carriage, top and bottom, for a sliding fit. It shouldn't be able to cock at an angle.
I also don't think is a big problem that it is fairly wide as long as the size and angles are right.
The dimple fo the screw should be "as if" you had run a drill through the gib screw hole with the gib in place to mark it. That's all you need. just a mark, not a hole. Something to just prevent the tip of the screw sliding along the gib face or allowing the gib to slide out lengthwise. Don't overdo it.
I say "as if" drilled through the screw holes because in fact that's what I did to make my lathe before cutting the gib screw threads. If I'd done that after the threads were cut, there's some danger of messing up the threads. It's still do-able if you're careful. Anyway, that gives you a mental picture of the orientation.
Yes you can make a new gib from strip stock with a file Steve. It really won't take long, and you only have to do it once.
Make yourself some filing guides out of some hardwood, ripped to the proper angle, and clamp the strip between them in a vice and start filing with a good clean file. A reasonably fine tooth file file won't file the hardwood much, so they will work.
You should mark out the gib beforehand with magic marker (blue it) and a scriber. All around -- both sides. And remove the gib from your filing jig and check your progress to the lines every once in awhile. You will get there. If you do feel you've got too much wear on the hardwood, second pair of filing guides are five minutes work -- in fact just rip out a long length of the stuff to have spares to begin with.
You're not making a precision fit by the way, the bearing face isn't the one you are filing -- you just want to have a good fit in the carriage so the gib won't cock. I'm sure you can do it without a milling machine, having seen your helmet and other quality work. I'm very confident you can make your machine work to your satisfaction, even if you plan to sell it some day. And you will have a lot of satisfaction making something better than it was new. By dong it right.