Pure guesswork , but looks to me like your square air opening is too far back to benefit from the gas jet, so the jet isn't pulling much air in.
I don't understand why opening the choke would blow the flame out in this instance.
Maybe I could try rolling a flare.
My guess was that you don't have enough oxygen mixing in. The flame is yellow and moves out away from the burner nozzle as you increase pressure because it is trying to mix with air beyond the burner before it can combust. Opening still further blows it out.
My guess is also that the gas orifice you built is located too far forward to draw in much air from your air ports. That's why it's so rich.
If you move the orifice back or move the ports forward you will draw in more air (I believe) and should have a leaner flame and one that stays more attached as you open the gas tap further.
Look at Lionel Oliver's burner referenced by Steve Huckss above. Notice that the orifice (a tiny drilled hole) Is located considerably aft of the air port holes. Now look at your topmost photograph of your own burner. Where is the air port in relation to your jet orifice?
I believe that the higher the gas pressure, the further forward a port needs to be to draw well. As you increase your gas, your ports are (in my estimate) reducing the amount of incoming air, rather than increasing it.
Again, all guesswork on my part.