Makes sense with a finger type DTI. Why didn't I think of that. 
Dave,
If you could think of everything, you wouldn't need help off anyone to do anything.
Your tram sounds fine, just a bit more than one thou over 11", most people would be VERY happy if they could get that accurate.
You either love or hate milling machines, I think it is because there are so many places you can easily make a mistake.
With a lathe it is fairly straight forwards, basically you mainly only use X and Y axis, and the material is usually in the same place each time.
With a mill, the material can be anywhere in relation to the tool.
Until you get to the stage where your movements become instinctive when moving the controls, it is very easy to make a mistake.
It is all to do with practice and experience, and normally you will go thru a frustration phase where nothing seems to go right, bad finishes, wrong sizes, broken tooling etc. All of a sudden a little light will come on and things will start to fall into place. Only then will you start to really enjoy yourself, and make bits and pieces how you want them to turn out.
Under no circumstances give up on it yet, you are most probably only a hop, skip and jump away.
John