@ adev
Thanks for the idea, but I have tried 2 flute endmills, and if anything it seemed worse. This may be because the core is thinner or it lacks the support of the extra flutes. If I get a chance I will do a direct comparison of 2 to 4 flute and see how it pans out. This problem always seems worse with small sizes, generally 3-6mm.
@philf
I should have thought of that but I seem to have an aversion to carbide because they break.
The HSS endmills I use normally have a 6mm shank and smaller dia flutes, which I would hope would improve the stiffness. The carbide mills I have generally have the same shank/flute diameter. I will give them a try and lay in a supply if it works out. I seem to have issues with breaking small carbide mills, not normally in use, but just by dropping them or removing them from a tight collets or generally just being clumsy.

Last one I broke was 10mm, 3 flute and managed to snap the flute off. Indispensable for really hard materials, but definitely kid gloves for handling, especially below 6mm.
Many thanks for the ideas and assistance.
Best Regards
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