Not even sure what to ask

There seem to very diferrent ruby hones available. I need about 3000 grit fininshing stone and I used have one for razor knife, but stopped shaving with that knife and stopped sharpenning it. Lost all that stuff, so I have nothing to compare.
Now I need to polish some sharp edges and finish some hardened metal parts.
How is cheap different from expensive one? Pretty much all are synthetic and probably aluminium oxide.
Anything I should know or just jump into ebay specials?
Pekka